Circlist aims to be a source of a very wide range of information about circumcision but we know that many people who come here are considering the specific question of circumcision for themselves or their sons. This section addresses this issue. Here we look at the medical and sexual aspects, the best age for circumcision and the practical details of the operation. More details are available from the links on our home page or at the base of all our major pages.
Reasons to circumcise - the basics
The benefits of male circumcision fall into several categories, broadly:
- Personal health & hygiene issues, including male sexual health
- Sexual health issues for the individual male’s partner
- Public health issues
- Conformity with cultural and religious norms
- Improved sexual experience
Separately, a moral and ethical debate exists in respect of the circumcision of minors. Should parents be able to consent to the circumcision of their child? On medical grounds there is little question since parents make many medical decisions for their children, but the religious aspect is more contentious. This debate has recently flared up in many European countries (see, most recently, our Germany page), but the right to circumcise has always won out.
Your son
If you accept that circumcision is the best thing for your son, then infancy is the time to do it. Circumcision in infancy maximises the medical benefits and minimises the complexity of the surgery. A very good summary is given in a recent (April 2021) conference poster from Penn State College of Nursing.
Quite why complications are lower at this age is unclear, but it is a fact. See BMC Pediatrics 2012, 12:20.
There are sometimes reasons why circumcision needs to be left until later, particularly if there is any abnormality of the penis. Such cases are rare, and are dealt with on our Contraindications page.
However, circumcision pre-puberty remains a fairly simple procedure. Many circumcisions done at this age are performed for cultural or religious reasons, but many are also done because it has become clear that a child has a problem foreskin. In such cases it is definitely better to see to the problem before puberty, but it is also vitally important that the boy understands and agrees with what is being done. If he does not want it, it is far better to leave it until later.
For the United Nations / World Health Organisation / UNAIDS view of neonatal and child circumcision, please read their publication 'Neonatal and child male circumcision : a global review' published April 2010.
Once puberty has commenced, circumcision becomes a more complex procedure - the parts concerned are larger, and erections rear their head. Many (maybe most) circumcisions in this age group arise as a matter of medical necessity, due to phimosis discovered when sexual activity commences. This can be embarrassing for the boy, since he will have to explain the problem to his parents, but it is still commonplace and no cause for concern. Parents of teenagers should always try to make it easy for their children to talk about sexual matters.
Yourself
Circumcision as an adult is a perfectly straightforward procedure. Depending on your age, erections may be less pressing than when you were a teenager, which helps. (Anti-erection medication, for adults and teens, is less that 100% effective, and the best approach is to sleep hunched up in a foetal position.) Most of the contributors to the original Circlist group and to this site were circumcised as adults and their opinions were and are 100% positive - see our Preferences and Experiences page .
For many men this will be just a matter of personal preference - their parents didn't have them circumcised, but they want to be. In other cases it may be because phimosis is present and was not dealt with earlier. Many men from conservative Christian or puritanical backgrounds find it impossible to raise such issues in their teenage years, and may even not discover that they have a problem until their wedding night.
Infections under the foreskin - balanitis or sexually acquired infections such as thrush - are also best dealt with by circumcision. This is particularly important if a man develops diabetes. The presence of sugar in the urine encourages infections under the foreskin which can become quite serious and lead to acquired phimosis. Circumcision is the best, and often the only, remedy.
Common questions answered
- What are the medical benefits of circumcision?
An explanation of the various conditions for which circumcision provides a degree of protection, to the man and his partner. - What are the risks?
Done in a proper medical context, male circumcision is a very low-risk procedure. A study published in 2014 shows that the incidence of AEs (Adverse Events) is lowest when circumcision is performed in infancy, but very low at any age. The risks associated with not being circumcised far exceed the risks of the operation. - What effect does circumcision have on sexual relations?
Intercourse, petting, masturbation. - Will my penis lose sensitivity?
This is the greatest scare tactic peddled by the anti-circumcision lobby. Is there any basis for this? - I want to get circumcised, what do I do?
What is involved? How long will I be out of action?
